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So go ahead and fill the remaining half and be filled with the full success.
Success is usually reserved for the wise one who fills the remaining half but in return gets full appreciation.
Your open mind approach with positive attitude towards any global event makes that event to appear as good event.
Similarly your closed mind approach with negative attitude towards any global event makes that event to appear as bad event.
Advance judgments and assumptions regarding people belonging to another country affect your interpersonal communications; saying and listening are only the beginning; cycle of effective communication completes only after receiving proper positive feedback from the people of another country with whom you are communicating or trying to get into a relationship.
Criticism always reflects others opinion about an event and is solely based on their way of thinking; criticisms are just a reflections of localized limiting thoughts of the people who are making them.
Criticism says more about the limiting personality of the person who is making it, than the person receiving it.
Criticism cannot hurt your feelings, unless you permit it to hurt your feelings, finally it is your own choice how you react to such criticisms.
Your internal reference point of self-confidence guides you to become immune to such criticisms, your negative response towards any criticism provide a clue that there is something within you that you need to look at and make necessary corrections and improvements within yourself.
Similarly, your advance judgments regarding people of another country speak more about yourself than about the people of another country you are judging.
Only using your advance judgments as a means to begin a interpersonal communication with the people of another country can only close off good possibilities of an effective interpersonal communication and a good relationship.
Making advance judgments on people of another country or on a world event is your way of protecting your innermost localized limiting thoughts and beliefs when they are challenged; so do not be judgmental either towards yourself or as Well as towards the people of another country. Apologizing for your own mistakes opens the doors for further understanding, good relationship and effective interpersonal communication; an apology is just an acknowledgement that people of another country too may have different approach as you do towards any global issue, event, subject or anything.
To achieve guilt free global relationships with the people of other countries, being appreciative towards them is the best way to avoid interpersonal misunderstandings and disagreements. When somebody gives you something out of their generosity you actually don’t owe them anything in return other than your sincere gratitude. Therefore in return to do something to others only because you owe it to others is quite restrictive, whereas doing something out of gratitude and wanting to do it, is very fulfilling, freeing and rewarding as Well.
Actually you attract people of other countries towards you who fulfill your expectations and whose expectations you can fulfill; having positive attitude towards people of other countries will improve your interpersonal relationships better to best. Most effective form of a competition is with yourself; therefore to eliminate fear of losing and losing something or someone you have to stop competing with the people of other countries and start making improvements over your own present skills and accomplishments.
Your creative efforts and actions are your best motivating assets because they don’t force your self-esteem down to win over your expectations of your everyday requirements, wants, and needs. Your self-confidence reflects your innermost empowering positive thoughts consciously cultivated by you which have transformed into your winning habits. Mere expectations without creative actions reflect your localized limiting thoughts that are hindering you to get something that you have never attempted to accomplish in your life. Then you will start thinking that you are missing something in your personality to achieve those objectives.
Whereas appropriate proper creative actions to overcome your wants, needs one by one strengthens your winning habit of tasting success in every moment of living your life along with your self-confidence. Similarly your habit of multitasking breaks your maximum potential into tiny fragments naturally you will end up becoming unable to put your maximum potential in any of the tasks on hand in your present event of happening moment. Similarly your frustration is also a reflection of your innermost limiting thoughts that have unconsciously transformed you into a limiting localized personality. You have cultivated them at the time when you were very young, while you were growing up, how would anyone be aware about such negative inputs at that tender age?
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Vittal Koppal / ISBN: 978 0 9822586 3 7
Hello, my name is Vittal Koppal. I am a published author; I write on global issues in English and Kannada. My English book, which has been published by an American publisher, "Think Globally, Act Locally" is now available on the Web at: www. scribeworx dot net. If you would like to read my book, I could give you a copy if you contact me: vittalkoppal at gmail dot com.
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