LISTENING TO THE INNER BODY
When listening to another person,
Don't just listen with your mind, listen with your whole body.
Feel the energy field of your inner body as you listen.
That takes attention away from thinking and creates a still
Space that enables you to truly listen without the mind interfering.
You are giving the other person space - space to be.
It is the most precious gift you can give.
Most people don't know how to listen because
The major part of their attention is taken up by thinking.
They pay more attention to that than to what the other person is saying, and
None at all to what really matters:
The Being of the other person underneath the words and the mind.
Of course, you cannot feel someone else's Being except through your own.
This is the beginning of the realization of oneness, which is love.
At the deepest level of Being, you are one with all that is.
Most human relationships consist mainly of minds interacting with each other,
Not of human beings communicating, being in communion.
No relationship can thrive in that way, and that is why there is so much conflict in relationships.
When the mind is running your life, conflict, strife, and problems are inevitable.
Being in touch with your inner body
Creates a clear space of no-mind
Within which the relationship can flower.
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