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Captain Jerry Coffee – Vietnam War POW, Keynote Speaker, Author and Media Commentator Printable Version PRINTABLE VERSION
by Jay-R Patron, Philippines May 18, 2007
Culture , Human Rights , Peace & Conflict   Interviews

  

Captain Jerry Coffee – Vietnam War POW, Keynote Speaker, Author and Media Commentator
KL: How long were you involved in the military before becoming a prisoner of war?

JC: Well, let's see. I joined in 1957 and was shot down in 1966, so about nine years. I was 32 years old when I was shot down, and 39 when I was repatriated. I was a Navy pilot; I had flown from aircraft carriers in the Mediterranean Sea and the Atlantic and Pacific Oceans, and then of course in Southeast Asia during the Vietnam War, and had a fine career going, made the rank of lieutenant commander a year early. Although I hadn't put on the rank literally before I was shot down. But, while I was there I made commander and you know took me a while to Commander Coffee after I got out because it was a foreign concept to me. So my career was sailing around and you know, gee whiz, I zigged when I should have zagged over North Vietnam and I kind of got put on hold, but we all realize that even though we might have been shot down and been captured and became POWs it didn't change the fact that we were still in combat and we still had a significant duty to uphold.

EL: For those of us who have obviously never been in this type of experience can you share with us an account or something there that helped you get through that hard time?

JC: Sure. One of the most unexpected advantages to that experience and I use the term advantage purposely, was the solitary confinement. Believe it or not there is so much to be gained from being in solitary. Stop and think about it. When was the last time you or any of your listeners out there had a chance to just take one day with no radio, television, fax machines, memos, meetings, beepers, iPods, you name it and get away from it all and just think about yourself and how you got to where you are or maybe more important how you're going to get to where you want to be. The solitary confinement gave me the opportunity to go back into my life to the very earliest memory I could possibly recall, maybe three years old, four, whatever it was, go back and relive my entire life and minute detail. It took months! In that process you really get a handle on yourself. You begin to understand yourself and who you are and why you are the way you are and why you believe and feel the way that you do. What motivates you, helps you to understand yourself, to be in touch with your human-ness, to maybe even forgive yourself for the first time in your life, perhaps. But, it never would have been possible without all that time to think, to just think about yourself. We stayed very busy and that was only part of it, we would communicate with each other through the walls by tapping from cell to cell. We would challenge each other with questions and we would study foreign languages and sciences and mathematics through the walls. My audiences usually crack up when I sometimes say you know sometimes I go to bed there -- I say bed, but it was really a concrete slab -- and I'd say to myself "Gee, I didn't get done everything I wanted to do today." Here you are in this prison complex, and people would think, "Oh, my gosh, must have been so boring." Well it could have been boring if you let it, but we didn't let it get boring. We realized that we had a rare opportunity to experience something that a vast majority of Americans never have a chance to experience. It even rationalized it as "Well, I guess you know if you believe in a code of experience you should get tortured at least once in your life." That's dark prison humor, but you know you really begin to think that way.

KL: How were you able to keep such a good attitude because you know a lot of people might just get captured, and then be like "Why me?" then be depressed for a while. How did you keep a good attitude and how long was it that you knew that you could continue and keep going and you could have the fellowship with the other POWs out there who were also near you?

JC: It's interesting you use the line "Why me?" because certainly that's exactly what it was. You get in to prison and the reality would begin to set in and you say "Wait a minute this is supposed to happen to the other guy, never to me. Why me?" And the real turning point, Kari, came when my prayers, and there were a lot of them, believe me, daily, and spiritual faith was one of the most significant aspects of my survival. But, my prayers finally changed from "Why me, God?" to "Show me, God. Show me what I'm supposed to do with this. What are you preparing me for?" What am I supposed to learn from this experience? Help me to use it to go home whenever that might be as a better, stronger, smarter person in every possible way that I can be. To go home as a better naval officer, to go home as a better Christian to go home as a better American citizen, to home as a better husband and father and friend to all my friends; every possible way help me to use this time to productively.

JC: Then having realized that there was going to be a purpose to what I was going through, although I didn't know what it was the entire time I was in prison. But, just knowing that there was a purpose that there was something to build toward and that every day wasn't just a void or a vacuum in my life, a waste of time. That made a huge difference, and that turning point was when I realized that there was going to be a purpose to what was going through.







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Jay-R Patron, 24 years old, currently works as content provider for a multinational IT consultancy firm, under its interactive marketing department.

He was a writer for Hawaii-based Greater Good Inc., a media company behind the much-acclaimed Greater Good Radio. The show promotes social entrepreneurship and servant leadership.

Jay-r is a Journalism and Communication and Media Studies graduate from the University of Southern Queensland.
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meddahi | Aug 15th, 2007
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Allison McLean | Oct 22nd, 2007
What an inspiration!

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